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If you are in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, a free, 24-hour hotline at 1.800.273.8255.  If your issue is an emergency, call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room.  Dr. Motro does not offer crisis counseling or emergency services.

Dr. Harry Motro, Marriage Counselor, is an employee of Harry Motro, Psy.D., Marriage and Family Therapist, P.C., which is a Professional Corporation.  Dr. Motro practices at 3880 South Bascom Drive, Suite 111, San Jose, CA,95124, is Licensed as a Marriage Family Therapist MFC 53452 and authorized to act as a Psychotherapist providing Psychotherapy. He specializes in Couples Counseling.   In addition to dealing with couples and relationship issues, Dr. Motro is trained to treat anxiety, panic attacks, post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, bi-polar, ADHD, Asperger's, sex difficulties, anger regulation issues, affair fallout, divorce recovery, self-esteem, addiction, co-dependency, trauma, abuse, eating disorders, and managing grief and loss. These issues often arise in couples counseling and will be dealt with as part of your therapy. If you search for counseling San Jose, marriage counselor San Jose, couples counselor San Jose, psychotherapy San Jose, psychotherapist San Jose, therapist San Jose, counselor San Jose, couples therapist San Jose, couples counselor San Jose, marriage therapy San Jose, life coach San Jose, career coach San Jose, executive coach San Jose, you can find Dr. Harry Motro's web site. In addition to serving San Jose, Harry serves clients in Campbell, Los Gatos, Saratoga, Willow Glen, Milpitas, Mountain View, Monte Sereno, Cupertino, Scotts Valley, Felton, Sunnyvale, Morgan Hill, Fremont, Los Altos, and Gilroy, California. Dr. Motro also provides  Mountain Bike Therapy. The recommendations on this website do not constitute professional advice, substitute for professional treatment, or establish a therapeutic relationship.

Rosario Puga-Dempsey, Marriage and Family Therapist Associate Registration Applicant, is supervised by and works for Harry Motro, Psy.D., Marriage and Family Therapist, P.C., (License #53452) which is a Professional Corporation. She can be reached at https://www.rosariopuga.com/. Her email is crc.rosariopuga@gmail.com and her phone # is 408 768 5300.

 

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About

Affiliations

Couples Recovery Center and Couples Recovery Institute (Founder and Director)

California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)


Affiliate of and Clinical Supervisor for the Christian Counseling Center of San Jose


GoodTherapy.org (Dedicated to preventing therapists from misusing power)

 

Proud Member of Marriage Friendly Therapists, LLC. I am a Pro-Commitment Marriage Friendly Therapist.

Academics

Adjunct Professor, Graduate School of Psychology, Western Seminary; Instructor for "Marriage and Couples Counseling" & "Family Systems Therapy"

Clinical Supervisor for Pre-licensed Marriage and Family Therapists

California Southern University - Doctor of Clinical Psychology (PsyD)


Santa Clara University – Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology (Marriage and Family Therapy program)

 

University of Virginia, Bachelor of Science

Licensing

Board of Behavioral Science, State of California

 

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

 

MFC 53452

Personal

My greatest treasure in life is my relationship with my amazing wife. She has challenged me to grow, stood by me through thick and thin, and rarely misses a chance to make me laugh.

 

We have been blessed to raise children together and to be part of a supportive local church family.

When I'm not pursuing my main passion of working with couples, I'm probably with friends roaming the redwoods on my mountain bike. I also love to create ART.

Why I Became a Couples Therapist?

Through out my life, as I watched marriages crumble, I couldn't help but feel deeply saddened for all the pain it caused. And not just for the couple, but for the entire family. A couple’s relationship sets the foundation for the next generation, for better or for worse. Yet many of us are woefully unprepared for marriage. With the right help, so much can be done preventatively to build more successful marriages. I see divorce as an AVOIDABLE squandering of human potential. That is why I have dedicated my work to helping couples strengthen relationships, enjoy each other, and break from generations of self-destructive behavior. 

 

Personal Qualities That Can Help Others

 

Some of the qualities that clients, friends and family have noted in me are my abilities to love, to listen and comfort, to deeply experience empathy, to connect emotionally, to inspire and encourage, and to have an intuitive sense about people and their relationships. I am and have always been a people person, and find great joy in interacting with others. Few things are more energizing to me than being with people and learning about them.

And to be clear, I am not a shrinking violet. The traditional, passive marriage counselor who says "uh-huh, uh-huh" will be blown away with most couples in conflict. To manage marital combat, I get in there and mix it up with my couples but maintain a firm hand so it stays safe enough to be vulnerable. At the same time, I naturally see the good in others, and give them the benefit of the doubt, which can help lift them up and allow them to recognize their own strengths.

 

The Benefit of Life Experience

As a therapist who is 58 years old and married for 34 years, I have something else to offer - the lessons I've learned from my own mistakes. My hope is that all the grief; all the crises; all the painful lessons can be put to use. Everything I have gone through I bring in my soul to provide compassion and support for you.

 

One last thought. I am often amazed that people often come to me with deeply personal difficulties and crippling shame, often stemming from long-guarded secrets. The fact that people open up their lives and trust me is a big deal. It is my promise to you that I will honor your willingness to be open and treat you with tenderness and care.