Dr. Harry Motro.

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.


Couples Recovery Center (CRC), 

Co-Founder, Clinical Director, and Practicing Clinician


Neurodiverse Couples Counseling (NCC)

Founder, Clinical Director, Practicing Clinician, Clinical Supervisor

Couples Recovery Institute, Director and Clinical Supervisor 

California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (CAMFT)

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Life-Long Learning


Adjunct Professor, Graduate School of Psychology, Western Seminary; Instructor for "Marriage and Couples Counseling" & "Family Systems Therapy"


Clinical Supervisor - Couples Recovery Center and Neurodiverse Couples Counseling (Interns can apply here)​


California Southern University - Doctor of Clinical Psychology (PsyD)

Santa Clara University – Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology (Marriage and Family Therapy program)


University of Virginia, Bachelor of Science


Board of Behavioral Science, State of California


Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist


MFC 53452


My greatest treasure in life is my relationship with my amazing wife. She has challenged me to grow, stood by me through thick and thin, and rarely misses a chance to make me laugh.


We have been blessed to raise children together and to be part of a supportive local church family.

When I'm not pursuing my main passion of working with couples, I'm probably with friends roaming the redwoods on my mountain bike. I also love to create ART.

Why I Became a Couples Therapist?
My Motivation for Helping Couples

As I have watched marriages crumble throughout my life, I can't help but feel deeply saddened for all the pain that results. And not just for the unhappy couple, but for the entire family, especially little kids.


A couple’s relationship sets the foundation for the next generation, for better or for worse.


Yet many of us are woefully unprepared for marriage. With the right help, so much can be done preventatively to build more successful marriages.

In my experience, divorce usually is an AVOIDABLE loss of human potential. In highly conflictual marriages, divorce may feel like much-needed relief. On the other hand, research shows that, of the 40% of first marriages that end in divorce, only 10% of those divorces are the result of intolerable problems such as chronic infidelity, domestic violence, and unaddressed substance abuse. The rest of those divorces are due to common everyday struggles which are can be overcome with solid guidance and hard work.​ I want to provide that guidance so you can steer clear of divorce and feel loved.


Personal Qualities That Can Help Others


Some of the qualities that clients, friends and family have noted in me are:

  • my abilities to love,

  • to listen and comfort,

  • to deeply experience empathy,

  • to connect emotionally,

  • to inspire and encourage, and

  • to have an intuitive sense about people and their relationships. 


I am and have always been a people person, and I find great joy in interacting with others. Few things are more energizing to me than being with people and learning about them.

Mixing It Up 

And to be clear, I am not a shrinking violet. The traditional, passive marriage counselor who says "uh-huh, uh-huh" will be blown away with most couples in conflict. To manage marital combat, I get in there and mix it up with my couples but maintain a firm hand so it stays safe enough to be vulnerable.


At the same time, I naturally see the good in others, and give them the benefit of the doubt, which can help lift them up and allow them to recognize their own strengths.


The Benefit of Life Experience

As a therapist who is 59 years old and married for 35 years, I have something else to offer - the lessons I've learned from my own mistakes. My hope is that all the grief; all the crises; all the painful lessons can be put to use. Everything I have gone through I bring in my soul to provide compassion and support for you.


One last thought. I am often amazed that people often come to me with deeply personal difficulties and crippling shame, often stemming from long-guarded secrets. The fact that people open up their lives and trust me is a big deal. It is my promise to you that I will honor your willingness to be open and treat you with tenderness and care.

Change begins by taking the first step.
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Dr. Harry Motro is part of the Couples Recovery Center which provides specialized couples counseling and includes the following professionals:


If you are interested in joining our team, apply here.

If you are in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, a free, 24-hour hotline at 1.800.273.8255.  If your issue is an emergency, call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room.  Dr. Motro does not offer crisis counseling or emergency services.


Dr. Harry Motro, Marriage Counselor, is an employee of Harry Motro, Psy.D., Marriage and Family Therapist, P.C., (a Professional Corporation), which does business as the Couples Recovery Center. Dr. Motro practices at 3880 South Bascom Drive, Suite 216, San Jose, CA,95124, is Licensed as a Marriage Family Therapist MFC 53452 and authorized to act as a Psychotherapist providing Psychotherapy. He specializes in Couples Counseling. In addition to dealing with couples and relationship issues, Dr. Motro is trained to treat anxiety, panic attacks, post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, bi-polar, ADHD, Asperger's, sex difficulties, anger regulation issues, affair fallout, divorce recovery, self-esteem, addiction, co-dependency, trauma, abuse, eating disorders, and managing grief and loss. These issues often arise in couples counseling and will be dealt with as part of your therapy. If you search for counseling San Jose, marriage counselor San Jose, couples counselor San Jose, psychotherapy San Jose, psychotherapist San Jose, therapist San Jose, counselor San Jose, couples therapist San Jose, couples counselor San Jose, marriage therapy San Jose, life coach San Jose, career coach San Jose, executive coach San Jose, you can find Dr. Harry Motro's web site. In addition to serving San Jose, Harry serves clients in Campbell, Los Gatos, Saratoga, Willow Glen, Milpitas, Mountain View, Monte Sereno, Cupertino, Scotts Valley, Felton, Sunnyvale, Morgan Hill, Fremont, Los Altos, and Gilroy, California. Dr. Motro also provides  Mountain Bike Therapy. The recommendations on this website do not constitute professional advice, substitute for professional treatment, or establish a therapeutic relationship.

Harry Motro, Psy.D., Marriage and Family Therapist, P.C., www.harrymotro.com, harrymotro@gmail.com, 408 823 2822.

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